Resolving a fight and preventing future ones
If you have recently had a fight with your partner things may be tense for a few days so unless you want to have the cold shoulder for that time frame there are a few things you can do to better the situation. If you love your partner then sometimes you may be the one to say sorry even if the fight was not started by you. It’s normal for all couples to fight whether you are dating or married but how it’s handled depends on you and your partner.
Avoid anger while fighting
The first thing you should avoid during a fight and all future fights are trying to not fight out of anger. You often say things that can be very damaging to your relationship and it may be stuff that you would never normally say anyways. Calling each other names and yelling at the top of your lungs will not resolve anything. If you have just had a fight with your partner, attempt to talk to them once things have cooled down. Tell them that you are very sorry that it has escalated to the point it has and you would like to either talk things out rationally or just let it go. If the issue is something minor and really has no importance then it’s not even worth fighting about. Many couples often end up fighting over something silly that could have been avoided all together.
If something has been bothering you and you feel as though talking to your partner about it will only end in you sleeping in different rooms or even houses then try doing it via email. If you had the time to sit down and think about what you want to say before actually speaking things would often be calmer but who really has time to think when you are in the middle of a heated discussion. By sending your thoughts via email you can really plan and think about what you want to write. It will also give your partner time to think about it and either respond via email or discuss it later at home with you.
Howto make up after the fight
If you want to make up with your partner from a recent fight maybe plan a special night out for just the two of you. Take them to a restaurant that you know they really like and even offer to attend an event that they really like even if you don’t. If you want to make your female companion feel special maybe pick her up a bouquet of her favorite flowers or purchase some of her favorite perfume. If you want to make your male partner feel special purchase tickets to his favorite sporting event and make it a fun filled day for him. There are little things that you can do to help a bad fight turn into a happy ending.
One of the easiest things that you can often do to make things better after a fight is by simply saying you’re sorry and giving them a loving embrace. That costs no money and if done with real feeling you and your partner should be back on good terms in no time.
I so love my partner very much and she loves me too but she doesn't want to show me. I don't know what to do please help.
I so love my partner very much and she loves me too but she doesn't want to show me. I don't know what to do please help.
I luv my partner somuch nd her luvs me 2. He complains ova everytin i do nd he gets angry easily. I dnt knw hw 2 make tins work btween us cos i dnt wan2 loose him
my boyfrnd is so jelus in a way that i end up being angry cuz am dating only hm,i even thnk of changing my starter pack to avoid prblems cuz i hav many frnds
johnlee, you should talk 2 her about what you feeling. myb she has no idea that what shes doing hurts you.try and make her understand.
m in a relationship with this guy.every thing was going well but every time he talks about sex he turns me off.
this is a girl i love,and she knows, each time we decides on getting into a relationship something comes up scatter our plan,i was jokking with her recently and she took it personal and refused to pick my call,trying 2 chat with her through bbm but she is not replying,i love her and i want her
i lv my hubby vry mch bt sumtym h myk flps, en dat rlly hrt me
WE FALL IN LOVE FOR TWO WEAKS AND SAID SOMETHING ,( JOCKING )SHE THEN TAKE IT PERSONAL AND SHE IS MAD AT ME ,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO COZ I LOVE HERE SO MUCH
love is word, dat keep on goin without an end.true love dont have an end.my for u is like the word.
i love my partner name laiba and he also loves me but due to some problems he left me i really love her
I'm so badly in love with her, but she always keep on hurtin my feelings almost daily,she urgue for something stupid,acusing me for something that i hev nvr done.nw am sick nd tired with this,but i dnt want her to spare frm me coz i lov her.pls hlp wat 2d
when l met my patner he really love me but l was just managing l didn\\'t show that serious love to him but he realy love me,now that l love him he did\\'nt love me again,what can l do?
I have just experienced a fight this friday because my girlfrend saw messages from the girls who are my freinds then she decided to dump me telling her self that i am cheating on her back so i need an advice because i have got no other options to take so please help me
i have a boyfrend that i love him so much, he can give me anything i want. but despite 4 that he so strict. yes i love him more than he loves me. but i cant deny the fact that everytime we have mis understanding it seems like it kills me.. i dnt knw if he trust me or by words only. he so possive, i dnt knw wt to do so everythings perfect 4 him.
to bright, yes she in luv,she a jealous lover
to luv usaully takes a strng hrt,and a strnger hrt to say it is still in luv wen deeply hurt deep within.
me and my love........v both daily fight and again patch up,m really hard to lead my life wit him like this but still i can't stay without him in my life...i dont know how to get ride of this?
love is word, dat keep on goin without an end.true love dont have an end.my for u is like the word.
pls i dnt knw wat make my guy to tell me hes no more interested and i do all tins to let im knw i luv im including all he ask 4 apart 4rm sex wat can i do pls o
I am a type of guy that quickly falls out of love and it has been occuring btn i and my partner...due to that to that my girl has leave me and now i wont my thing back seriously and nt sure i might treat her nicely but av said all that i can but nothing equip her to change her mind
A who is just a friend to me,very close that she gives me all that i want i took her as my sister,on my birth day She came to me on my birth day and saw lying on my a bed girl-friend,and i sitting beside the girl,she just drop the gift down and walk away,i kalld her to tell her there is nothing b/t that lady and i.The lady she saw just came to iron her uniform,cos she has no electricity.my lovely sis never understand.Does it mean she is in luv with me.and now how do i explain what happen?
i really dont know y my partner always suspect i am a cheat in the relationship. I ve done my best to c how i will make understand am faithful. Or is it becos we havent seen face to face? But will chat on cam. Pls help me cos we re resently in a fight n i ve bin calling to say sorry but his not picking up his calls
Thanks to you guys because i always find it hard to deal with my anger and that destroys every relationship i enter.